Single mother dating again
But Winter strongly feels that less pressure will be placed on you and your S. if you leave it off of social media—at least in the early stages.
“Keep your blossoming relationship out of the eyes of ‘friends’ on social media,” she advises.
“Well-meaning friends and family often can’t help but offer cautionary tales and unsolicited advice, projecting their own fears onto your new relationship,” she continues.
“This can confuse you and add unnecessary tension with your mate.” Same goes for a spat with an ex (or your child’s father) on social media: “Don’t post anything negative on social media, since nothing good can come of it, especially now that you have a child to worry about.” says Dr. “Take the high road and let it go.” Knowing when to introduce a love interest to your child can be really tough, but when in doubt, wait it out.
Of course, you can’t expect everyone you date to make a triple-digit income, or alleviate your own financial burdens.
“The key is to find someone who’s financially self sufficient, who can at the very least take care of him or herself without depending on you,” says Dr. If you had a child with someone you broke up with, learning how to co-parent will keep things positive and avoid any drama with new dating prospects who enter your life.
But, believe it or not, not all of us single moms are recent divorcées scrolling through silver fox profiles on Match.Not to mention that in the rare and precious moments I do have to myself, it feels like a major risk to spend that time with someone I might never see again rather than catching up with friends, reading, zoning out to Netflix, or, you know, sleeping.The men I’d normally take an interest in are often just starting their careers, still in undergrad, or staying out until 3AM every chance they get—whereas I’m living the opposite lifestyle, and as a party of two, not one. In spite of this barrage of challenges, I still have hope.Still, the experts say single moms would do well to look for prospects in places other than our glowing screens.“We treat online dating like we do our social media streams and select only the images that stand out to us,” says Silva.