Many women have a hard time rejecting a man directly – even though it’s the best way for both parties. However, these indirect rejections often make situations worse.
That’s why the only consistent measurable factor for being rejected is action. A woman who likes a guy wants to see him in person. They stay in denial and always try to reason that she may be secretly interested, despite her delays.
I’m a 42 year old single male who recently left a 5 year relationship for various reasons, but mainly because I wanted kids and she did not.
I thought that since I was an attractive, fit, well-educated, financially and emotionally secure guy that I would have no problem finding a woman in her mid 30s to settle down with and start a family.
These women still have money to make, places to travel and oats to sow.The lesson to all of you younger readers: take your love life seriously when you turn 30, instead of waiting until you’re 35 or 40. I do know when I was in my early 30’s, anyone in their 40’s seemed old to me! It’s been my experience that I seem to get alot of emails from the 50 and over crowd. A dozen guys stood around the room, holding their drinks and leering. As awful as it may have seemed, I’m glad I handled it with dignity.I have tried a combination of online dating, speed dating, professional singles events, volunteering, happy hours etc. I thought that online dating would be great since you are essentially pre-screening people for dates.I have found that I get no responses from any women online and the only women who respond to my ad are usually much older and don’t meet any of my criteria outlined in my profile.